So I had a birthday last week. In the swing dancing community it’s a tradition that when a dancer has a birthday you give them a Birthday Jam. This is a kind of exhibition dance in which the birthday girl starts out dancing with one guy in the center of a large circle of the other dancers. As the song plays, the other guys present take turns stealing her. If it’s a birthday boy, then the girls take turns stealing him. I, in particular, always seem to have very interesting birthday jams. They’re good fun, and can be the source of a lot of hilarity and/or showing off. Showy steals, flashy moves – who knows what will show up?
This year my family showed up. Well, half of them (I am one of eleven siblings). It was Dad, Larry, Michelle, Heather, Lisa, and Gabe. Liv was the Mastermind who got everyone there. This was a big deal. My family has never come out to see me dance. When I was in my first competition, Liv came to cheer me on, but my family didn’t even ask me how I’d done. Just the week before I’d been whining about this. Trey’s family came all the way from Maine to watch him dance. My family couldn’t go across town?
And then they showed up at the regular Wednesday night dance. I had no idea, not the shadow of a suspicion, nothing. I had dropped the swing club kids off early for the lesson (it was Shim Sham, which I already know how to do), and gone to chill at Barnes & Noble until the dance would start. Of course I got caught in a book, so I was late to the dance. I walked in, and there they were. I was utterly flabbergasted. It was awesome. What made it even more awesome is that both Dad and Gabe jumped in during my birthday jam. Gabe did a little swing dancing a few years back, so he sortof knew what he was doing, but my Dad had absolutely no clue. He was so cute. His idea of dancing was bouncing very energetically opposite me. I thought, “Well, ok.” and turned it into a kicky-Charleston sort of thing. Then he ran out of breath (my Dad bears a striking resemblance to Santa Clause, complete with white beard and rosy cheeks) and called for someone to rescue him. It was so much fun.
With all this love, I don’t mind being another year older.